I was enlightened on what our RECONSE professor, Sir Maynard Tamayo, had told us. 'Twas February 3 when I had come to the point I reflected myself on the situations I have seen this past months.
That’s the important question that struck me. It reminds me of something that happened more than a year ago.
My friend had a relationship with a guy. She had a condition, the two of them hid their real score from their own parents. Until quite sometime, their relationship was known. They were written out. Their families didn’t know the TRUE HISTORY of their relationship. Why? It’s because, the guy himself TOOK ADVANTAGE of their “secret bargain”.
Although the girl herself has no intentions, no intentions at all, she realized her mistake. After all, she really liked and LOVED the guy. But SHE FEARED that if their families discover the real score between them, they will forcibly separated. But, she ADMITTED her mistake to her family, in order for them to be informed because she also LOVE her family and she don’t want them to be hurt.
But the guy, on the other hand, DENIED their true closeness, as his reply to the aunt’s question: “What is the relationship you have with my niece?” After discovering that her girlfriend told the truth, he was somewhat disappointed. WHY IS THIS SO? It means that, he USES HIS RELATION TO THE GIRL in order to DO SOMETHING DEVIANT.
In fact, when she felt that there is something strange in the guy’s actions, she sought me for some advices about what to do before she broke up. “I really don’t know what his REAL intentions are,” she told me, “I am really somewhat UNCONVINCED of his feelings for me.”
Actually, she made the right decision. She was disconnected with the guy (physically and emotionally), and with the help of her devotional prayers, she made it. She regained her strength (may it be physically, socially, emotionally, and the most important of all, spiritually). She was forever thankful to God that He gave her friends that will help her in times of turbulence.
Months later, when she made a very cool “atmosphere”, she was so shocked when he saw the guy again. Never did she knew that they will be back again. She was ‘deceived’, and forgot about what turmoil she had gone through before. And besides, it was really a GREAT TROUBLE, because was involved in an accident.
Well, in all fairness huh, it was not really an accident! The point here is, HE TOOK ADVANTAGE OF THEIR EVERYTHING HE GOT. HE TOOK HER FOR GRANTED. He became successful of making his fantastic design. Although yes, he DID have a girlfriend, but, it is not my friend anyway! I may not know who she really is, but one thing is for sure. He courted her because of her several advantages, and most importantly, she was undoubtedly mature enough to settle down!
Worse of that, she suspected that her ex is hiding something from her. IN FACT, HE WAS SPLENDIDLY LYING — that his relationship with his officemate was off. As in, totally wiped out! But how is this so? It’s not important, anyway! The more important was: she became aware when she finally found out that the guy was getting married in December this year.
I really feel very sorry about my very good friend of mine, that she wasted almost everything for something insignificant. Hey, but by the way, she is happy now, despite of everything she lost, because she knows that she will regain the most out of it at the very right time. Hopefully!
I really want to share this knowledge to all of you. Especially you, my friend. You know who you are. Here is a special letter for you:
I know you can do it! You are born with a strong will! I really do hope and pray that God will help you overcome these barriers. I know that God gave you enough courage to stand up and fight for your heavenly legacy. Although you lost in that fight, I know, dear friend, you will be able to get ahead of them in some other ways!! May you continue to blaze more trails and do ordinary things extraordinarily well.
PS: And please, take good care of yourself. I am always here to support you no matter what happens. I love you very very much!
“If you love the person so much, why should you fear?”
My friend had a relationship with a guy. She had a condition, the two of them hid their real score from their own parents. Until quite sometime, their relationship was known. They were written out. Their families didn’t know the TRUE HISTORY of their relationship. Why? It’s because, the guy himself TOOK ADVANTAGE of their “secret bargain”.
Although the girl herself has no intentions, no intentions at all, she realized her mistake. After all, she really liked and LOVED the guy. But SHE FEARED that if their families discover the real score between them, they will forcibly separated. But, she ADMITTED her mistake to her family, in order for them to be informed because she also LOVE her family and she don’t want them to be hurt.
But the guy, on the other hand, DENIED their true closeness, as his reply to the aunt’s question: “What is the relationship you have with my niece?” After discovering that her girlfriend told the truth, he was somewhat disappointed. WHY IS THIS SO? It means that, he USES HIS RELATION TO THE GIRL in order to DO SOMETHING DEVIANT.
In fact, when she felt that there is something strange in the guy’s actions, she sought me for some advices about what to do before she broke up. “I really don’t know what his REAL intentions are,” she told me, “I am really somewhat UNCONVINCED of his feelings for me.”
Actually, she made the right decision. She was disconnected with the guy (physically and emotionally), and with the help of her devotional prayers, she made it. She regained her strength (may it be physically, socially, emotionally, and the most important of all, spiritually). She was forever thankful to God that He gave her friends that will help her in times of turbulence.
Months later, when she made a very cool “atmosphere”, she was so shocked when he saw the guy again. Never did she knew that they will be back again. She was ‘deceived’, and forgot about what turmoil she had gone through before. And besides, it was really a GREAT TROUBLE, because was involved in an accident.
Well, in all fairness huh, it was not really an accident! The point here is, HE TOOK ADVANTAGE OF THEIR EVERYTHING HE GOT. HE TOOK HER FOR GRANTED. He became successful of making his fantastic design. Although yes, he DID have a girlfriend, but, it is not my friend anyway! I may not know who she really is, but one thing is for sure. He courted her because of her several advantages, and most importantly, she was undoubtedly mature enough to settle down!
Worse of that, she suspected that her ex is hiding something from her. IN FACT, HE WAS SPLENDIDLY LYING — that his relationship with his officemate was off. As in, totally wiped out! But how is this so? It’s not important, anyway! The more important was: she became aware when she finally found out that the guy was getting married in December this year.
I really feel very sorry about my very good friend of mine, that she wasted almost everything for something insignificant. Hey, but by the way, she is happy now, despite of everything she lost, because she knows that she will regain the most out of it at the very right time. Hopefully!
I really want to share this knowledge to all of you. Especially you, my friend. You know who you are. Here is a special letter for you:
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My dear friend,I know you can do it! You are born with a strong will! I really do hope and pray that God will help you overcome these barriers. I know that God gave you enough courage to stand up and fight for your heavenly legacy. Although you lost in that fight, I know, dear friend, you will be able to get ahead of them in some other ways!! May you continue to blaze more trails and do ordinary things extraordinarily well.
Lovelots,
Shie ♥
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